Synopsis
The Smooth River is the remarkable story of how a well-known public relations expert and her husband met her stage 4 pancreatic cancer head-on. In contrast to narrow conventional approaches, the couple developed a far more expansive view of what strength means in response to a crisis for which there are no medical cures. They called this the Smooth River.
This clear-eyed transcendent perspective was so vital that they wouldn’t let anything disrupt it—not cancer’s lethal march, not the strongest chemos and their failures to work, not how society expected them to think or act, not the process of dying itself.
The Smooth River demonstrates how to treat one’s life as bigger—and far more important— than any medical condition, any setback of any kind. With effusive warmth, refreshing candor and practical detail, it describes how to personalize Medical and Life Plans that affirm the value of a patient's being and guide their loved ones. Its invaluable lessons show how to face the possibility of dying with sanctity and comfort, to view it as an opportunity for personal growth, finding inspiration and intense beauty in the experience—in life itself. There are lessons in the Smooth River approach for everyone.
The Smooth River, is a great book that touches mankind situations- that is crisis. In life we struggle with obstacles in our eadeavours to remain relevant in society, however solutions are situational in nature as depicted in this narration by a family battling with stage 4 pancreatic cancer. Richard and his wife Marcia, are made to search into their long experience of helping others overcome their problems as a source of strength.
Richard and Marcia used The Smooth River to convey a well ordered and tranquil end, during this period of illness, not only for the management of the cancer but also for the entire family. Marcia tried to understand what most people wanted to avoid; the probability of imminent death, could she also use the same approach for herself?
Discussing death among health professionals can be construed as giving up. As apalliative care expert Dr. Antony Back noted in an article: " Robust research shows that doctors are notoriously bad at delivering life- altering news", however, Richard explicitly shows that death is never a conclusion that one has " lost" the fight. We need to portray a " win" posture at all times. l strongly agree with the author that managing difficult circumstances by softening long-held preconceptions and adjusting to uncomfortable realities go to the heart of the smooth river approach.
Persnally l gave this book five stars. The author has used comparisons for clarity of thoughts, the use of cancer as relating to other life threatening diseases draws a person to follow it up; drawing analogy to what society views situations as a " lose" whereas there is a lot to be taken as success. To me it is a book that anybody should read , as Richard and Marcia provide their practical approach to emerging life situations, like the pandemic era.
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