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The Real Golden Girls aka "The Book"

By Gloria McCarthy

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A personal memoir emphasizing the blessing of supportive female friendships with each displaying very strong and humorous personalities.

Synopsis

This book is my journey of love, heartaches, triumphs, tragedies and lots of laughter, that brought together four women in an unbreakable, lifetime bond of friendship and sisterhood. I tell of love, sex, an affair, a home invasion and murder and a lot of laughter that entered into my life’s ring of fire.

Gloria Candelori married at age sixteen while early in the stages of pregnancy. After having three additional children, she was expected to raise the children largely on her own. Her husband was an unreliable supporter or even presence in the home. With fortitude, she survived this relationship for twenty-one years before divorcing. This experience helped her develop a strong backbone. During these challenging years, Gloria began acquiring female friends who would eventually become life-long friends and supporters. They too often faced similar domestic and relationship challenges. Later, the batch would confront the hardships of life: the death of parents, illnesses effecting children or grandchildren, and illnesses among the group of friends. They came to see themselves much like the TV series "The Golden Girls." They always stood by each other and faced fears with laughter when possible.


Gloria's autobiographical story sheds light on the role of women in the 1960s and 1970s. Marrying at a relatively young age but still being expected to do it all on her own feels daunting. Sticking by a husband who drank and had affairs rather than seeing to his family took strength and tolerance. It's a relationship which feels like it would end much more quickly now. Moving forward in life to a new partnership with Tom who treated her much more kindly is vindicating. The reader wants Gloria to find a more gratifying love and support system both for herself and her children.


Among her "Golden Girl" friends, Gloria becomes the Blanche of the group. Maintaining her sex appeal and attractiveness as well as a spicy attitude definitely mirrors the show. Focusing on family or female relationships over the males who often drift in and out of the narrative does as well. It's clear this support network is crucial for the life-long friends who will be there until the end.


The memoir has great potential to entice readers who lived through the same time frame and encountered similar domestic challenges. It would definitely provide good book club discussion fodder. The stream-of-consciousness non-linear narrative can be challenging. The time stamp of events jumps around quite freely leading to some events feeling uncertain in setting. The book would also benefit from an additional polishing round with many typos. In its current state, it presents as a "friends and family" memoir over a professional memoir. The narrative content is there and perhaps with a revision it will experience increased appeal to a wider audience.

Reviewed by

Editor of former NASA Mission Control leader, Gene Kranz's book, "Tough and Competent: Leadership and Team Chemistry." I work as a LJ/SLJ reviewer (nine years). Formerly: Horn Book Guide, The Shelf Awareness for Readers newsletter, and Kirkus Indie. Over 250+ published professional reviews.

Synopsis

This book is my journey of love, heartaches, triumphs, tragedies and lots of laughter, that brought together four women in an unbreakable, lifetime bond of friendship and sisterhood. I tell of love, sex, an affair, a home invasion and murder and a lot of laughter that entered into my life’s ring of fire.

Dressed in a white sequined Queen Ann style wedding gown and a veil over a crown to match, dad held tightly onto my hand that was slipped over his arm as we walked that long isle in St. Ann’s Church. When he reluctantly released my hand, I could see the tears roll down his cheeks, and then he turned and walked to his seat next to my mom. His compassion and love for his family was stronger than anyone I had ever met. I was his baby; not the youngest, but his "il piccolo fiore" as he called me in private. We were tight dad and I, closer than I was with my mom.

I was sixteen and four months pregnant, and other than my future husband, no one knew, not even my dear friend Father Giusani, who, prior to the wedding, did our questioner.

Father Foley, another parish priest performed our wedding ceremony. He had also heard our confessions after the rehearsal, the night before the wedding. I remember Mac being in the confessional for a long, very long time. When we got to the car later on, I asked him what took so long. He said after divulging all his sins, the priest asked if he had murdered anyone because it was the only sin left that he hadn’t confessed to. This in itself should have set off some warnings, but I was too young and too innocent to even consider what a warning could be.

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Gloria McCarthyHi Jessica,   You recently reviewed and critiqued my book, thank you for that. It was not such a bad review, I would have like a little better, lol, but it was honest from your viewpoint and I appreciate it.   I do have a question though, you said it was filled with misspellings but to be honest with you, we are having trouble finding them. I check spelled as I went along, probably four or five times after I finished, had an author of other books critique it and after going over it again yesterday, found one misspelling. I did find a couple of grammatical errors.   Would you be kind enough to point those misspellings out to me because if we have missed something I would like to correct it.   I have never read a book where I didn't find a spelling error and it makes me crazy so I need to fix any errors.   Thank you and have a Merry Christmas or Happy Holiday if you don't celebrate Christmas. This is what I sent to Jessica hoping to get an answer so I could correct those errors she said she found in my book. As you can see, it was just before the holidays. So far, I have not gotten a response. If you hold yourself in a position to critique a book, you should be willing to follow it through with any questions an author may have. Just saying...
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About the author

You know me well when you read my book. You will know the life I lead. Women connect with me right away. The book is filled with heartache, love, murder, fun and laughter, lots of laughter. Take a peak and thanks. view profile

Published on April 10, 2023

0-1000 words

Contains mild explicit content ⚠️

Genre:Biographies & Memoirs

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