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The Life Story of Robert J. Lovelace

By Robert Lovelace

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Synopsis

The MPs guarding the gate never questioned why two soldiers were transporting a sheep in a jeep. The Commander laughed as they tried to put the sheep in his office. The base hospital wasn’t laughing when a bulletin was issued for missing research sheep.

Young soldiers can get into mischief but at the same time have a tremendous responsibility guarding WWII POWs. That is what the Army assigned Robert and other young men for fifty dollars a month.

Born in Appalachia, Robert’s life story began prior to the great depression. His parents used ancient farming methods, made their clothes and shoes, and crafted toothbrushes from birch trees. Their family, faith and humor carried them through challenging years.

Heart in hand, Robert searched for a spouse during and after WWII. He proclaimed to a friend “I'm going to marry that girl”. At the time, he had never spoken to the lady he would later marry. Through the support of teachers, Robert completed his H.S. diploma at age 27. Next to his school picture, the quote reads: “Nothing is impossible to a willing heart.” That quote reflected what his life would be for 97 years.

The funny stories will make you laugh.

There's something magical about reading the words of an author sharing his life's stories at the age of 97. Perseverance, a youthfulness mixed with the melancholy of days gone by, while also the learned behavior of a man writing down a living legacy for those within his circle of influence to draw from.


The melancholy is not noticeable in this book's pages, only known from the author's admission. The book itself reads in chronological order from the author's childhood to successes later in life as it pertains to his loyalty and duties associated with career military service. His is a life to be celebrated, from hard-scrabble beginnings to a "willing heart" that simply won't quit.


This is the type of book that shows what a person can become if they don't stop keeping on. What a person can become if they don't have a victim mentality but rather one of a survivor who will beat the odds. This person takes responsibility seriously and desires to care for his loved ones as best as possible. This doesn't mean mistakes were never made or time couldn't have been spent with a better sense of work-to-life balance, but there's no doubt that love was interwoven through it all between his comrades, family, counterparts, and co-workers in a multitude of various jobs.


The pictures shared within this book are a blessing to behold. Biographies and memoirs are the best read when there are tangible memories that can be shared with readers. The above being said, a book like this is mainly for the benefit of those that know the author and those in generations to come that will be his descendants. Hence my three-star rating of this book. It's worth reading, as life lessons can always be gleaned from those who have lived year's beyond our own, but it falls short of being revelatory.


Takeaways for any reader: The ability to draw from this author's past and current strengths, from his willingness to finish what he starts, his superb attention to detail, his stick-to-it-ness, faithfulness, loyalty, and ability to work hard, dutifully, and to the best of his ability. These are things to emulate.


Thank you for your service, Mr. Lovelace; as the daughter of a Vietnam Army Veteran, I appreciate your willingness to serve, dedication, and love of country that kept you serving for so long. May your descendants, those within your church circle, and even readers like me find themselves inspired by you never to give up, to take heart and know they can always find a way to make do, and that perseverance and hope, along with a childlike spirit of wonder and curiosity, will serve them well throughout their lifetimes. I salute you, "Cheers to a life well lived!" May you continue to keep on, keeping on, until our Father in Heaven, with open arms, welcomes you home.

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Synopsis

The MPs guarding the gate never questioned why two soldiers were transporting a sheep in a jeep. The Commander laughed as they tried to put the sheep in his office. The base hospital wasn’t laughing when a bulletin was issued for missing research sheep.

Young soldiers can get into mischief but at the same time have a tremendous responsibility guarding WWII POWs. That is what the Army assigned Robert and other young men for fifty dollars a month.

Born in Appalachia, Robert’s life story began prior to the great depression. His parents used ancient farming methods, made their clothes and shoes, and crafted toothbrushes from birch trees. Their family, faith and humor carried them through challenging years.

Heart in hand, Robert searched for a spouse during and after WWII. He proclaimed to a friend “I'm going to marry that girl”. At the time, he had never spoken to the lady he would later marry. Through the support of teachers, Robert completed his H.S. diploma at age 27. Next to his school picture, the quote reads: “Nothing is impossible to a willing heart.” That quote reflected what his life would be for 97 years.

The funny stories will make you laugh.

The Life History of Robert J. Lovelace

DEDICATION

This book is dedicated to my family & church. Thank you for the support you have given me in my later years. May you live a long and fulfilling life. I greatly appreciate my daughter, Debra’s, and Jay Kincanon’s assistance with this autobiography. This book is also dedicated to teachers, those in military service, and people everywhere who offer a helping hand to others. Your work is noble.


INTRODUCTION

Memory betrays us all, such as: The face is familiar, but what was the name? Where did we go? What did we say? When did it happen? As cognitive memory begins around the age of three, I assume that some of what I say here started around the age of three or four. I read somewhere that one remembers what he remembered from the last time he thought on the same subject. Having lived 97 years, I find myself belonging to a generation obsessed with retaining and relaying everything. I now understand the better things of the past were not so often articles or possessions accumulated as they were the manners in which people lived, the things they thought and the time in which they lived. This, of course, is still true. The fine things and modern way we live today will be different in a very few years hence. For some reason I have always wanted to write of my past to provide a description of a different time and to leave a record of my life’s challenges and stresses for those who come after me. None of my memories are confabulations. It seems to depress me somewhat as I try to remember the past. I do not know the reason for this feeling but be it as it may, I am compelled to write.


CHAPTER 1


TROUTDALE , VIRGINIA

Troutdale was located on the covered-wagon route in Grayson County between Marion, Virginia and Ash County, North Carolina. It had a population of about twenty-eight hundred or more at the time of my birth. Before that it had been a small settlement since 1870. It was incorporated by the Virginia General Assembly on March 12, 1906 making it the highest incorporated town in Virginia with an elevation of 3,700 feet, and located near Mount Rogers, the tallest mountain in Virginia, at 5,729 feet. Passengers could ride the old Marion & Rye Railway into Troutdale until the 1930s. The town was laid out in a one mile circle the center being the northwest corner of the Methodist Church lot. Grayson County was formed out of Wythe County in 1793 based on a book Pioneer Settlers of Grayson Co., VA. (1) It was a lumber boom town with a Vaudeville theater, a bank, a US post office, a telephone office and a cattle yard that was located in the western part of the township. It also had a furniture factory, three churches, two barber shops, two produce houses, two ice cream parlors, a hat shop, Masonic Hall, several hotels, restaurants, a high school, a blacksmith shop, a grist mill, a feed store, clothing and dry goods stores, a carpenter shop that made caskets, a train station, a taxi, and a newspaper: The Troutdale News. There was a plant to extract tannic acid from the bark of chestnut oak and eastern hemlock for the tanning of leather which was used by the United States Leather Company. The Grayson Lumber Company in nearby Fairwood produced more than 125,000 feet of hardwood per day. The Phoenix Iron Ore Company was also there. Other small stores existed as typical of the day. In the 1920s Troutdale became a summer tourist resort. As I remember it, the theater was not in use. It had been closed long before my time. Steve Long owned it and used it for a storage warehouse and a grist mill. I think the Perkins Department store was the largest and was owned by Breeze and Hattie Perkins. The Perkins family owned most of the property in and around Troutdale, including large dairy barns and farm land in all directions. They controlled the cattle business in this part of Grayson County. They sold out and went to California sometime in the early nineteen thirties.


ELECTRICITY

Troutdale had its own electric power plant. There was a dam on Fox Creek with a raceway that ran around the side of the hill to the place where the water ran down a chute to a turbine wheel that powered the generators to produce the electricity. As the story goes, in later years the owner-operator only ran the power plant when he saw fit.


ENTERTAINMENT IN TROUTDALE

Times were hard and there was little extra money in the Lovelace budget for entertainment. Sometimes on weekends we went to Mr. and Mrs. Leonard’s house in Troutdale to listen to the radio for entertainment. The only moving picture show that could be seen without going to Marion was someone would show old movies on Saturday night using the side of the Primitive Baptist Church as a screen when the weather was good. Sometimes the power would go off . If the weather was bad there was no show. Sometimes they had a good excuse for the power failure when the creek was low on water. The only compensation the operator got was from selling popcorn and candy. There was no admission charge. The circus would come to town occasionally. I would volunteer to help the animal attendant to water and feed the animals. The attendant would go around back and slip me in under the tent as payment for helping. I don’t know if the show manager knew this or not. Maybe I was doing the attendant’s job for him. I really didn’t care how I got in, only that I did.


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Robert LovelaceThe RJL book demonstrates how we can live through a large market crash, great depression, World War, and drastic changes in automation and culture. Looking back 97 years, it is apparent that positive outcomes occur for us with a willing heart, caring teachers, military support, family and faith. Current conditions in the world are volatile similar to the 1920s and 1940s. History can repeat itself. The RJL book provides a framework for living through uncertain times.
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About the author

I am 97 years young, having lived through the great depression and WWII. I was fortunate to find my true love and help raise four children. As the U.S. culture changed from agrarian to technological, I had to also evolve and 'learned the computer" at age sixty. Superior Civilian Service Award. view profile

Published on September 01, 2022

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