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Synopsis

Surprises keep things spicy in a relationship. But too often, the unexpected moments that keep a budding romance smoldering get forgotten once couples have been together a while.

The Surprise Date Challenge-Home Edition to the rescue!

Planning one surprise date a month for each other keeps the fire and passion burning, and this book makes that planning easy-with 24 exciting ideas that aren't extravagant, expensive, or even away from home. That's a whole year worth of dates!

Each date is designed to be interesting and intimate. To keep things fresh. To increase communication and connection while adding passion, adventure, and-this is important-a sense of mystery.

What can you discover in your relationship, no matter if you're just starting out, are newlyweds, or have been together for many years? Shake things up-with our help-and find out. As motivational speaker Tony Robbins puts it: "Do what you did in the beginning of a relationship and there won't be an end."

Engage the senses. Experiment outside your comfort zone. And above all, have fun!

BONUS: When you purchase the book, you will get a hidden bonus link to downloads, links, and other resources, including a special playlist curated for each date.

Dana Lam, author of The Surprise Date Challenge: Be the Happiest Couple You Know, has written another book along the same vein called The Surprise Date Challenge: Home Edition. The second book builds on the first by providing twenty-four new date ideas to do without leaving the house.


The purpose of The Surprise Date Challenge is for each couple to plan one date night a month for each other. All twenty-four date ideas are listed in the back, in an easy-to-cut-out and use manner. You can cut them out, put them in a container, and then each draw an idea out and start planning. If you do not want to cut out the pages in your book, Dana gives you a link you can go to so you can print them out. The main idea is to keep the date a surprise from your spouse, giving you something to look forward to each month (and don’t we all need that right now?).


The Surprise Date Challenge is beautifully designed. There are bright pink hearts scattered throughout the book with interesting quotes on them, like this one: “The moments of happiness we enjoy take us by surprise. It is not that we seize them, but that they seize us (Ashley Montagu).” While I like the pink heart design, in the digital format this hurts my eyes. This may be a non-issue for certain tablets or the print version.


The book has twenty-four unique ideas in it, that are explained in great detail. While there are some that I would not want to do – like those involving alcohol – the way they are explained gives ideas of what I could do instead.


I liked the way the book is set up. I like that the ideas are a good jumping-off point for those who need creative date ideas. I love that quite a few of them are cheap or free ideas, as the point is to spend time with your spouse, not spend money! I love that most of the ideas are not things that I would have thought up on my own. I also enjoyed that The Surprise Date Challenge provides complete recipes when cooking is involved.


I enjoyed this book and would have loved to have a print copy making it easier to refer to over and over again. My favorite date idea is the one about mysteries (no spoilers so if you want to know, pick up the book!), as this is not something I would have come up with on my own. I highly recommend this book to anyone who wants to get back in the habit of dating their spouse. I would also recommend it to those with an adventurous spirit as some of the ideas are a little out there. This book would also be great for couples who are just starting to date and have no clue as to what their date might like. It would be a great way to get to know them better.

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Synopsis

Surprises keep things spicy in a relationship. But too often, the unexpected moments that keep a budding romance smoldering get forgotten once couples have been together a while.

The Surprise Date Challenge-Home Edition to the rescue!

Planning one surprise date a month for each other keeps the fire and passion burning, and this book makes that planning easy-with 24 exciting ideas that aren't extravagant, expensive, or even away from home. That's a whole year worth of dates!

Each date is designed to be interesting and intimate. To keep things fresh. To increase communication and connection while adding passion, adventure, and-this is important-a sense of mystery.

What can you discover in your relationship, no matter if you're just starting out, are newlyweds, or have been together for many years? Shake things up-with our help-and find out. As motivational speaker Tony Robbins puts it: "Do what you did in the beginning of a relationship and there won't be an end."

Engage the senses. Experiment outside your comfort zone. And above all, have fun!

BONUS: When you purchase the book, you will get a hidden bonus link to downloads, links, and other resources, including a special playlist curated for each date.

Introduction

Too often, once the “honeymoon phase” has worn out, couples find

themselves stuck in the proverbial rut—doing the same activities over

and over and over again.

Add in overloaded personal and professional schedules, and even the

conventionally reliable dinner-and-a-movie doesn’t cut it anymore.

Our first book, The Surprise Date Challenge: Be The Happiest Couple You

Know, was released in March 2019 and sold over 5,000 copies in its

first year. Its simple success formula challenged couples to plan one

surprise date for each other every month. The results and testimonials

from couples around the country have been nothing short of amazing.

Now we’re back with The Surprise Date Challenge: Home Edition.

This book builds on our first by providing 24 date ideas to spark

novelty, curiosity, intrigue, and FUN—all without leaving the house!


Whether you want to inject some high-octane fuel into a boring relationship or

simply spice things up, The Surprise Date Challenge: Home Edition is just what the doctor ordered.

Its premise: Partners plan one activity or experience for each other monthly,

using the 24 at-home dates we’ve curated to dazzle and excite each of your

senses along the way.

The element of surprise is paramount. Once the two days on the calendar are

cleared, and the anticipation kicks in, that’s when the real fun begins.

The key is for you and your partner to keep an open mind while following the

Surprise Date Challenge Formula. Be open to the novelty of trying something

different—even if it’s out of your comfort zone—to enhance connection and

romance.

And don’t be afraid to add your own twist. We are offering only a template to

get your creativity juices flowing and relationship thriving.

We are confident that if you and your partner give the Surprise Date Challenge

Formula a shot, you’ll increase your passion for each other and make surprise

dates a monthly priority.


Enjoy connecting,


Dana and Marty


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6 Comments

Dana LamThank you @cindydavis4047 for taking the time to review our book. I truly appreciate it! Most of the date ideas can be done with friends and family too. Be sure to check out the secret bonus page with more resources for each date idea including downloads. :)
about 4 years ago
Claire WagnerSurprise Date Challenge: Home Edition, was a well needed addition to our relationship. It gave wonderful suggestions that even sparked other ideas, and it has made a world of difference for my relationship with my husband and my other family and friends! We're making it a point to get together more and create new memories! Everyone should own this fun and creative book!
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about 4 years ago
Skip KerekesEverything I’ve read from Dana’s pen has been well worth my time. This second edition of Surprise Date Challenge; home edition, couldn’t be more timely and spot on.
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about 4 years ago
Anisha DandgallDana mam, that was a great book for couples I've read so far, thank you for sharing these great idea for all the couples out there , all the best for your future books.
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almost 4 years ago
Amama khanthe importance of surprises in a relationship and suggests a solution to keep the spark alive in the form of a book called "The Surprise Date Challenge-Home Edition." The book provides 24 exciting ideas for surprise dates that can be planned easily. Overall, the presents an interesting idea for couples to keep the passion alive in their relationship. The concept of planning surprise dates is a great way to inject some excitement and unpredictability into a relationship, and the fact that the ideas don't require extravagant spending or leaving the house makes it accessible to many couples. This highlights the common problem faced by couples where they tend to repeat the same activities over and over again, leading to boredom in the relationship. The author introduces their book, "The Surprise Date Challenge: Be The Happiest Couple You Know," which challenges couples to plan a surprise date for each other every month. The presents an interesting concept for couples who want to add excitement to their relationship by trying new activities together." it encourages couples to plan surprise activities for each other using 24 curated at-home date ideas. The element of surprise is emphasized, as partners clear their calendars and eagerly anticipate the upcoming activity. By following the Surprise Date Challenge Formula, couples can enhance their connection and romance by experiencing new things together. The author's confidence in the effectiveness of the Surprise Date Challenge Formula is reassuring. It suggests that couples who give it a try will reap the benefits of increased passion and a deeper connection.
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almost 2 years ago
Grace AmerleyI just love how it’s detailed and how I’m using it to improve my relationship
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Growing up in Cottonwood, Arizona Dana dreamed of the big city. While her small town roots ground her, Dana is a busy mom of two kids, author and co-founder of Surprise Date Challenge. view profile

Published on November 01, 2020

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