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A witty, uplifting book that meanders through big spiritual ideas and the challenges of finding happiness in the current state of the world.

Synopsis

In this collection of observations, contemplations, and insights, award-winning author Thomas Lloyd Qualls offers a down-to-earth oracle to help decipher the riddles of modern life.

Part field notes from a seeker’s journey and part teachings of a would-be monk who doesn’t get to live on the side of a mountain, Happiness Is an Imaginary Line in the Sand is convincing in its stubborn insistence that a better world is not only possible, but within our grasp.

The author lives not in a cloistered world of saffron robes, but is knee deep in the muddiness of life. A lawyer who represents people on death row. A struggling parent of fiercely willful child. And a creative spirit juggling the demands of work, money, family, and time.

Flip to any page of these essays of hope, joy, and struggle and you are bound to find a treasure you didn’t know you were searching for.

Thomas is the author of three books, his debut novel Waking Up At Rembrandt’s received national critical acclaim. His second novel Painted Oxen earned seven literary awards, including the Landmark Prize for Fiction, a Silver Nautilus Award, and the award for Best New Fiction at the American Fiction Awards.

According to Thomas Lloyd Qualls, one direct path to a life full of joy is beauty. Happiness Is an Imaginary Line in the Sand offers tools and suggestions about putting aside our distractions and focusing on genuine ways to reach happiness. Qualls’ musings are in a digestible format of short essays—helpful for those who lack attention span.


If you enjoy the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle but find it verbose, Qualls shoots it straight, and his book has a tad more humor, which might help you understand that all we have is now. Qualls says, “The only way to accomplish anything, including change, is to locate yourself in the present moment. To find your center and figure out how to stay there . . .” Qualls does a keen job of directing readers toward spiritual questions and not spoon-feeding the answers. If you also enjoyed Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott, Qualls has an amusing essay or two on writing, mixed with wit and irony. His airport story will be familiar to any writer swearing they want to get more writing done if they only had the time.

 

As a female poet, I find his snippet of Mary Oliver’s famous line (“Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life? —Oliver) without a reference rather offensive. Nevertheless, his use of quotes throughout the manuscript is well done and not overly cliche—he even finds some obscure inspiring words. This is not a flowery spiritual book; Qualls addresses the dark side of humanity’s race against the clock of climate change, and still, he insists that beauty is an agent of change. My excessive dog-earing of pages tells me Happiness Is an Imaginary Line in the Sand has material worth even a second look.

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I am an award-winning book editor and photographer now living in Missoula. My murder mystery Under the Pines reveals childhood memories of trips to the crime lab. I currently write book reviews for Montana Quarterly, edit for several publishers, and have poems published in literary magazines.

Synopsis

In this collection of observations, contemplations, and insights, award-winning author Thomas Lloyd Qualls offers a down-to-earth oracle to help decipher the riddles of modern life.

Part field notes from a seeker’s journey and part teachings of a would-be monk who doesn’t get to live on the side of a mountain, Happiness Is an Imaginary Line in the Sand is convincing in its stubborn insistence that a better world is not only possible, but within our grasp.

The author lives not in a cloistered world of saffron robes, but is knee deep in the muddiness of life. A lawyer who represents people on death row. A struggling parent of fiercely willful child. And a creative spirit juggling the demands of work, money, family, and time.

Flip to any page of these essays of hope, joy, and struggle and you are bound to find a treasure you didn’t know you were searching for.

Thomas is the author of three books, his debut novel Waking Up At Rembrandt’s received national critical acclaim. His second novel Painted Oxen earned seven literary awards, including the Landmark Prize for Fiction, a Silver Nautilus Award, and the award for Best New Fiction at the American Fiction Awards.

Each Day Asks This

Each day asks this of us. That we forget the one before.

Each day asks this of us. That we not hold too tightly to the sight of flowers that bloom so unexpectedly all over our yards, our streets, our city. To the daubs of joy that suddenly saturate our awareness of just how lonely we've been for color all the long gray winter. That we allow these things to come and to go in their time. That we not grieve as the once vibrant petals wither and fall, scattering and collecting, unceremoniously, in the fence corners and the gutters.

That we love and let go of beauty.

Each day asks this of us. That we forget our endless disappointments, our not-so-quiet rage. That we hit whatever reset is required. That we turn and face it, put on our makeup, polish our shoes. That we grind the coffee and adorn the oatmeal. That we approach uncertainty unflinchingly, unjaded. That we turn yesterday's cheek, unclinch our fists, offer an open palm.

That we believe in it. As if it had never, ever let us down.

Each day asks this of us. That we rediscover ourselves. That we forget everything we knew about yesterday. That we wake up in the same bed, eat the same food, put on the same clothes, look at the same mirror, and see these all as brand new. That we wash our faces and change our socks, always asking who these things belong to.

Each day asks this of us. That we remember our cells are reimagining themselves faster than we can change our minds. That everything, absolutely everything in our universe is on its way to somewhere else, something else. That it is not possible to stand still.

Though we sit on pillows and strive to quiet our minds. Though we simplify and simplify and simplify. Though we journey to the desert. Though we strip down to nakedness. Each day asks this of us and more.

Each day asks this of us. That we look the same way upon the flowers and the snow, the clouds and the sun. That we enjoy all the things that are there and not long for what is not. That we love the heat of midday as we do the sunrise and sunset. That the dark sky hold as much sway as the full moon.

That we understand spring’s parade of pinks and whites and yellows will be gone by the time these words are read. That we not mourn the clean comfort of snow-covered mountains as their luminosity fades to earth and rock. That we abide the rolling coastal sheep grounds, as they surrender their lush carpets to the summer sun. That we accept that the vibrant immediacy of redeeming passion that rises to meet our deepest desires will also slip from memory’s grasp.

That we forgive the fact that all this and more will disappear.

Each day asks this of us. That we open our hands. That we let go of what we are clinging to, to make room for the new gifts it has for us.

That we accept that there is nothing to lose and nothing to gain. That there is only what this day has brought to us. That there is no hoarding, no saving, no burying in the yard. That there is not more in the back. That regardless of what we are told, there is always enough to share.

Each day asks this of us. That we put salve on our bruises and sew up our heartbreaks. That we record the victories and put the trophies on the shelf. That we clean and oil the chain, put new air in the tires. That we put in a fresh ribbon and stack clean sheets.

That we be willing to entertain the idea that disappointment and desire deserve unfamiliar names. 

Each day asks this of us. That we show up. And nothing more. No hiding beneath the covers. No resting on laurels. No reaching for back issues. No sitting on the bench. No calling in sick. No need to save the world.

That against great odds we must make ourselves understand that we cannot find love by tracking its scent. That the bra she left in your bed, the scent of his shirt, our dog-eared dairies, the photo stream in the cloud -- each of the things that are too precious to name -- we must somehow comprehend that we found them because we were there at the time. Not because we were looking for yesterday.

Each day asks this of us. That we live it. That we breathe while there is air to float upon. That we move while there is earth to hold us. That we not grieve our too crooked paths. And that we not shirk from the beauty of being.


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About the author

Thomas Lloyd Qualls is a writer, a condition that is apparently incurable. He is also the former owner of a music festival, a licensed attorney who has overturned two death sentences, and a one-time vagabond who used to wander the globe with a backpack and three changes of clothes. view profile

Published on October 26, 2021

Published by Homebound Publications

50000 words

Genre:Self-Help & Self-Improvement

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